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	<title>Comments on: Halloween Costumes: Go Sexy or Go Home?</title>
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		<title>By: Morgan Elizabeth</title>
		<link>http://stilettorevolt.com/2009/10/go-sexy-go-home/comment-page-1/#comment-1904</link>
		<dc:creator>Morgan Elizabeth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 00:09:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ T Snowe - this is a good dialogue to have. The annual backlash by people who reject the trend, paired with limitless online shops and stores, perhaps would help people approach Halloween differently. And this site often uses hyperbolic demonstrations for satirical commentary, which isn&#039;t meant to oversimplify or misconstrue information, so if that&#039;s happened here then that&#039;ll be kept in mind for future posts.

Women&#039;s costumes are, on the whole, much more sexualized than men&#039;s costumes, and teen/kids costumes are adopting it more and more as well. Perhaps the point of the post is to promote thought about it, and to pose the chicken-and-egg question on sexy Halloween. The trend is driven by consumerism, but is that consumerism also influenced by the trend? It&#039;s complex and perhaps unanswerable, but worth acknowledging and considering.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ T Snowe &#8211; this is a good dialogue to have. The annual backlash by people who reject the trend, paired with limitless online shops and stores, perhaps would help people approach Halloween differently. And this site often uses hyperbolic demonstrations for satirical commentary, which isn&#8217;t meant to oversimplify or misconstrue information, so if that&#8217;s happened here then that&#8217;ll be kept in mind for future posts.</p>
<p>Women&#8217;s costumes are, on the whole, much more sexualized than men&#8217;s costumes, and teen/kids costumes are adopting it more and more as well. Perhaps the point of the post is to promote thought about it, and to pose the chicken-and-egg question on sexy Halloween. The trend is driven by consumerism, but is that consumerism also influenced by the trend? It&#8217;s complex and perhaps unanswerable, but worth acknowledging and considering.</p>
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		<title>By: T Snowe</title>
		<link>http://stilettorevolt.com/2009/10/go-sexy-go-home/comment-page-1/#comment-1897</link>
		<dc:creator>T Snowe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 19:26:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OK, if the point of the blog was not that the sexualization of Halloween is wrong or bad then I read too much into it.  I certainly agree with the mocking of the kid/teen outfits as being overly sexual - I&#039;ve made these comments many times myself.

But, no it is not difficult to find more modest adult Halloween outfits.  I just searched for Halloween costumes on Google.  Try it.  Put in &quot;Halloween outfits&quot;.   Go to any one of the sponsored links and you will find a ton of modest adult female costumes.    Also, try either of the first two non-sponsored search results - plenty more.   I can put in links to every one of those pages if you&#039;d like.

That obvious truth - that there are plenty of non-sexualized costumes for women is what led me to think the blog is really a more covert way of disagreeing with the sexy Halloween costumer trend.   But if it is not really about that then I&#039;m not sure what point are you making? 

I say admit that you are against the increasing sexualization of Halloween and tell us why - not just because it means you only have the choice to wear sexy outfits when that isn&#039;t true.  Tell us you don&#039;t want to wear those outfits because you don&#039;t like being looked at as a sex object.  Or admit that there are plenty of non-sexualized choices but you feel uncomfortable choosing them because you think society expects something different.   Whatever - but I think that basic premise is just untrue.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, if the point of the blog was not that the sexualization of Halloween is wrong or bad then I read too much into it.  I certainly agree with the mocking of the kid/teen outfits as being overly sexual &#8211; I&#8217;ve made these comments many times myself.</p>
<p>But, no it is not difficult to find more modest adult Halloween outfits.  I just searched for Halloween costumes on Google.  Try it.  Put in &#8220;Halloween outfits&#8221;.   Go to any one of the sponsored links and you will find a ton of modest adult female costumes.    Also, try either of the first two non-sponsored search results &#8211; plenty more.   I can put in links to every one of those pages if you&#8217;d like.</p>
<p>That obvious truth &#8211; that there are plenty of non-sexualized costumes for women is what led me to think the blog is really a more covert way of disagreeing with the sexy Halloween costumer trend.   But if it is not really about that then I&#8217;m not sure what point are you making? </p>
<p>I say admit that you are against the increasing sexualization of Halloween and tell us why &#8211; not just because it means you only have the choice to wear sexy outfits when that isn&#8217;t true.  Tell us you don&#8217;t want to wear those outfits because you don&#8217;t like being looked at as a sex object.  Or admit that there are plenty of non-sexualized choices but you feel uncomfortable choosing them because you think society expects something different.   Whatever &#8211; but I think that basic premise is just untrue.</p>
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		<title>By: Morgan Elizabeth</title>
		<link>http://stilettorevolt.com/2009/10/go-sexy-go-home/comment-page-1/#comment-1896</link>
		<dc:creator>Morgan Elizabeth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 18:58:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ T Snowe- it says &quot;Many people do enjoy the playful sexuality that Halloween can bring, and the fact that it’s briefly socially acceptable to bare some more skin.&quot; and &quot;There&#039;s nothing wrong with showing some skin on Halloween.&quot; So that&#039;s not a point of disagreement at all. It&#039;s just increasingly difficult for women who do prefer modesty to find something good to wear. And the argument about repression of female sexuality contributing to this trend is a good and thoughtful point.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ T Snowe- it says &#8220;Many people do enjoy the playful sexuality that Halloween can bring, and the fact that it’s briefly socially acceptable to bare some more skin.&#8221; and &#8220;There&#8217;s nothing wrong with showing some skin on Halloween.&#8221; So that&#8217;s not a point of disagreement at all. It&#8217;s just increasingly difficult for women who do prefer modesty to find something good to wear. And the argument about repression of female sexuality contributing to this trend is a good and thoughtful point.</p>
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		<title>By: T Snowe</title>
		<link>http://stilettorevolt.com/2009/10/go-sexy-go-home/comment-page-1/#comment-1894</link>
		<dc:creator>T Snowe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 15:58:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Huh?  Why do you suggest not giving them our money this year?  Beccause you don&#039;t like the sexy outfits outfits???  Tough - I do.  And try looking at the full catalogues - there are plenty of non-sexy outfits as well.  You only chose to show the sexy ones to make a point

Instead, what I think is interesting about how sexual in nature the Halloween outfits have become is asking &quot;Why is this happening?&quot;  Why are these outfits so popular?  Doesn&#039;t it say something about how our culture has repressed the latent sexuality of women that we take this one opportunity a year to let our sexuality out?  Maybe we go a bit overboard in response because we aren&#039;t allowed to during the rest of year.  Maybe some of us actually like being looked at as sex objects sometimes?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Huh?  Why do you suggest not giving them our money this year?  Beccause you don&#8217;t like the sexy outfits outfits???  Tough &#8211; I do.  And try looking at the full catalogues &#8211; there are plenty of non-sexy outfits as well.  You only chose to show the sexy ones to make a point</p>
<p>Instead, what I think is interesting about how sexual in nature the Halloween outfits have become is asking &#8220;Why is this happening?&#8221;  Why are these outfits so popular?  Doesn&#8217;t it say something about how our culture has repressed the latent sexuality of women that we take this one opportunity a year to let our sexuality out?  Maybe we go a bit overboard in response because we aren&#8217;t allowed to during the rest of year.  Maybe some of us actually like being looked at as sex objects sometimes?</p>
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		<title>By: Piggles My Love</title>
		<link>http://stilettorevolt.com/2009/10/go-sexy-go-home/comment-page-1/#comment-1840</link>
		<dc:creator>Piggles My Love</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 12:24:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yes. because it is presented to us we HAVE to follow it.

Look kids, it&#039;s as simple as this, if you want to dress up as a slut, go for it!!1!

If you CHOOSE otherwise (and choice is something you can control) then don&#039;t.   (!!!1!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes. because it is presented to us we HAVE to follow it.</p>
<p>Look kids, it&#8217;s as simple as this, if you want to dress up as a slut, go for it!!1!</p>
<p>If you CHOOSE otherwise (and choice is something you can control) then don&#8217;t.   (!!!1!)</p>
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		<title>By: Michael Schatz</title>
		<link>http://stilettorevolt.com/2009/10/go-sexy-go-home/comment-page-1/#comment-1416</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael Schatz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 02:43:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I actually saw some terrifying costumes for kids that were racy.

On another note, why does everyone buy a ready made costume.  The best ones I saw were homemade outfits at the parties I went to:  Zombie Juno, a Little Sister from Bioshock and the princess from Braid.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I actually saw some terrifying costumes for kids that were racy.</p>
<p>On another note, why does everyone buy a ready made costume.  The best ones I saw were homemade outfits at the parties I went to:  Zombie Juno, a Little Sister from Bioshock and the princess from Braid.</p>
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		<title>By: Tegan</title>
		<link>http://stilettorevolt.com/2009/10/go-sexy-go-home/comment-page-1/#comment-1402</link>
		<dc:creator>Tegan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 22:36:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And you, Dolorosa, are the reason I mock people who are so uppity about other people&#039;s clothing. Grow up and get over yourself. No one cares about your poorly formed opinion when you aren&#039;t eloquent enough to back it up like a mature adult.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And you, Dolorosa, are the reason I mock people who are so uppity about other people&#8217;s clothing. Grow up and get over yourself. No one cares about your poorly formed opinion when you aren&#8217;t eloquent enough to back it up like a mature adult.</p>
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		<title>By: dolorosa</title>
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		<dc:creator>dolorosa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 23:25:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Because it&#039;s not sexy, Tegan, just pathetic.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Because it&#8217;s not sexy, Tegan, just pathetic.</p>
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		<title>By: Tegan</title>
		<link>http://stilettorevolt.com/2009/10/go-sexy-go-home/comment-page-1/#comment-1351</link>
		<dc:creator>Tegan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 20:52:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Though I am a big advocate on sexy-costumes rights (wrote about it on my blog) I must say this article is very well written and expresses the other side well. Congrats on not going into internet rage over other people&#039;s costumes. This is the first anti-sexy costumes article I&#039;ve read that didn&#039;t make me roll my eyes. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Though I am a big advocate on sexy-costumes rights (wrote about it on my blog) I must say this article is very well written and expresses the other side well. Congrats on not going into internet rage over other people&#8217;s costumes. This is the first anti-sexy costumes article I&#8217;ve read that didn&#8217;t make me roll my eyes. <img src='http://stilettorevolt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: alicat</title>
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		<dc:creator>alicat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 20:49:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>adrian - in the u.s. halloween is not just about dressing up in scary costumes...it&#039;s about dressing up in general, you can be whatever you want, not just a vampire, zombie, witch, etc.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>adrian &#8211; in the u.s. halloween is not just about dressing up in scary costumes&#8230;it&#8217;s about dressing up in general, you can be whatever you want, not just a vampire, zombie, witch, etc.</p>
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