Flow: The Cultural Story of Menstruation

The tomato soup is overcooked. The cranberry woman is coming. Jenny has a red dress on. Every country is equipped with a set of euphemisms to avoid talking about menstruation directly. When mentioned in the media, it’s usually the butt of a joke or the source of sales pitch. And you’ll be hard pressed to find a drop of actual blood on screen, even in Tampax commercials. With all the once-taboo topics we can now freely discuss at the dinner table, why is menstruation still rarely taken seriously?

Flow: The Cultural Story of Menstruation is a thoroughly researched confrontation on social discomfort with menstrual blood. Authors Elissa Stein and Susan Kim present information in a casual, familiar style, as if your older sisters have come to tell you about the facts of life. “The stages of our lives are in a sense defined by where we are on the menstrual time line,” they explain. (p.15) Puberty, PMS, contraception, child birth, and menopause all revolve around ovulation and monthly bleeding.

Among other things, this book studies the impact of language on our perceptions of menstruation. The term “feminine hygiene,” for instance, teaches us the process is inherently unsanitary. Tampon ads frequently use the words “protection” and “embarrassment,” implying our periods will harm and humiliate us if we aren’t careful.

Greek and Roman philosophers ignited some of these cultural stigmas centuries ago. Hippocrates and Plato believed a woman’s uterus could actually drive her insane, throwing tantrums in its desperation for children. Aristotle described women as passive receptacles for sperm, monthly menstruation being the burden of procreative failure. Pliny the Elder thought menstrual blood was toxic, saying it “could make seeds infertile, kill insects, kill flowers, kill grass, cause fruit to fall off trees, dull razors and drive dogs mad. The glance of a menstruating woman could kill bees, her touch could make a horse miscarry, and contact with her blood would cause another woman to lose her child, as well.” (p.36-37)

Most religions also treat menstruation with disgust and disdain. In Islam, menstruating women are not permitted to touch anyone, as echoed in the Koran 2:222, “Keep away from women in their courses, and do not approach them until they are clean.” Orthodox Judaism forbids men to touch their wives for two weeks per month – before, during, and after menstruation. In the Bible, Leviticus 15:19-23 says “If a woman has a discharge, and the discharge from her body is blood, she shall be set apart for seven days; and whoever touches her shall be unclean until evening.” (p. 80-82)

Beyond simply exploring stigmas, the authors reveal all the ways menstruation has shaped cultural practices. Bloodletting, for instance, began as a way to mimic periods, purging the body of supposedly bad blood. Vibrators were initially used by doctors to treat hysteria, a mental disease thought to be caused by a woman’s uterus. Even the word “taboo” is linked to the concept of menstruation.

While the authors’ colloquial delivery may not appeal to everyone, they’ve nevertheless built a comprehensive overview of social, political, and economic issues connected to menstruation. It’s a fascinating read, and a potential springboard for further conversation. Over 3 billion people have a monthly cycle, so there’s no reason to feel uncomfortable addressing it honestly and openly.

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Source:

Stein, Elissa, and Kim Susan. Flow: The Cultural Story of Menstruation. New York: St. Martin’s Press, 2009.


3 Responses to “Flow: The Cultural Story of Menstruation”

  1. Danielle Lombard Says:

    This is great. Reminds me of how an FB “friend” told me nobody wants to hear about your mammary infection but then gave some advice to a mutual friend on how to deal with neck and back pain. Should we start labeling certain body parts as dirty- wait. It’s already being done.    

    I call my cycle my moon and my 2 year old daughter seems to enjoy passing me a pad. In fact, the other day she asked for one and pretended to have her Luna too. Better to get acquainted now instead of at the first sign of her own bloody show. My mom just made a sad face and handed me a box of sanitary napkins. 

  2. Becca Says:

    I have decided to be unashamed of my period since about 8th grade. I’ve talked about it so much that all my guys friends have become understanding, not disgusted, except for one of my best guy friends. His family is very hush-hush about it so he always rolls his eyes whenever I bring it up. Funny thing is, now the rest of the boys in our group give him grief for being so immature about it! haha

  3. Prexus Swyftwynd Says:

    Becca,

    That’s awesome! It is really girls like you who will really help men understand what menstruation is all about and remove then negativity in it. On one hand, girls have always been so secretive about menstruation/hygiene and on the other hand, blame guys about being insensitive/have no knowledge about it. In order for us to learn (without reading it out of a textbook), it is best to have that knowledge transferred to us via a female and it much more effective that way.

    If more women began sharing to men their experiences of menstruation and done in a manner where they’re not conveying that it is gross, embarrassing or a curse, then it’ll change the male ideology that menstruation is a bad thing. I am blessed to have many girl-friends who are open enough (and I guess me being willing enough) to listen to everything that they want to share about their periods. I often even become curious and will ask even more questions. It is great to see women like you are helping society break the taboo trend in society behind menstruation!

    - Prexus
    Author of MEN in Menstruation

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